Secrets to Success - 100 Top
"The good neighbor looks beyond the external accidents
and discerns those inner qualities that make all men human and, therefore,
brothers."
*-- Martin Luther King, Jr.
"If you want to get the best out of a man, you must
look for the best that is in him." *- -Bernard
Haldane
"If you think you can, you can. And if you think you
can't, you're right." *-- Mary Kay Ash
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After all the things I have shared
with you this year on what is needed to feel good about yourself, your
potential, and your chances of realizing your desires, here is a quick
list to review your progress. Remember, you are a success no matter what.
The fact that you are checking off your accomplishments indicates that
you are ready to climb the next peak. During this year, through other articles,
I shared with you on where to find the light switch and how to turn on
it’s light, however, you took the time to find and apply. Take a bow for
all that you have accomplished and not for what remains. Do evaluate whether
you really gave it your full strength though, that is where the guilt appears
and will hold you back.
Here is a quick list of all the
secrets to success that I've shared with all my avid followers this year.
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The road to success begins at the intersection
of humility and egomania.
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Time needs to be made in order to reach
your goals.
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Being a success is being fulfilled
in whatever aspect of your life you choose.
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Be yourself.
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Nobody is born a success, they create
it. Motivate
yourself everyday for success.
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Success isn't a town you can drive
to--it’s a state of mind.
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The four elements crucial for success
are:
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your talents/strengths,
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your desire (higher than passion,
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the success team you've added to your
repertoire, and
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attraction is the universal law and
it’s something you have to help create.
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Everyone has strengths. They need to
be found and maximized.
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If you don't fit in, find where you
do, and take on that path. Swimming backstroke uphill isn't worth it and
you will not extra points because you do.
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Believe you deserve success isn't a
question, it’s a must.
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Become your own first fan and other
people will too.
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Prepare but don't focus, for adversity,
plan for other possibilities.
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Catch self-defeating behavior immediately
when it begins.
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Set realistic goals that feel achievable
now, give them a short date, and then keep moving them up.
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Decide what you are willing to do and
exchange what is already in your life in order to achieve your goals.
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Learn to see yourself as you want others
to see you.
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Start behaving like someone who has
already achieved your goals.
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Aim, leap, and run in the direction
as hard as you can.
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Match your strengths and talents with
all your work efforts.
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Know your own personal values and proceed
with them in all that you do.
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You must have a "get out of my face"
desire that is like a positive rage.
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Success is not an accident or found
in a lottery ticket, you need to create it.
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Let go of any feelings that life isn't
fair.
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Make leaps every day.
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Have action
not reaction.
Act as if everyday starts with
a clean white board and you have the choice to write whatever you want
on it.
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Strive for one peak, then another,
and another. Keep on booking peak after peak.
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Success is a place you cannot achieve
alone.
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Surround yourself with a team of believers.
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Listen and learn from the best in your
line of focus.
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Step out everyday and network within
your scope of success.
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Lose any dream-busters--yours or others.
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Always remember you are your own Captain
of your ship.
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You must take risks in order to gain
success. Have the mindset to just
give it a try, your dreams might just come true.
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Confront change with open arms.
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You don't need anyone’s approval to
attain your goals.
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You can learn to attract all that you
want, it’s like creating your own luck,
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Focus on solutions, not problems.
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The harder you work, the more you will
attract.
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There is a big distinction between
attraction and chance. Name it to claim it.
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Turn disadvantages and all setbacks
into advantages and prosperity as it will increase
your will power in you.
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Learn to recognize and use opportunities
as soon as they arise, next week is too late.
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Be an optimist, and surround yourself
with the surround-sound of the same. Mirror out is mirror in.
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Learn to listen and follow your intuition
and instinct.
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Be lucky in life. Love yourself and
everyone will love you as well. Look for love in all the right places--
inside you--first.
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Seize your day or someone else will.
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Success is too important to take seriously.
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Only create an affinity with others
who believe in the same.
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Be concerned with your image, it really
does matter, even in your pajamas. Don't sleep nude, you'll live nude.
Sleep in silk and live in silk.
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Dress for where you want to be not
where you had been.
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Protect your reputation.
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Build references that match your goals,
nothing less.
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Realize you are already a pillar of
success; you just desire to climb a new peak.
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Create a fan club.
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Use common sense to balance.
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Do better than your competitors.
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Eat healthy and exercise daily. Get
healthy--physically and mentally.
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Accept responsibility.
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Anger isn't in the vocabulary of someone
successful. Leave it in the dictionary.
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Check in with assumptions on a regular
basis and clean, clean, clean them up immediately.
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Clean house of all bad habits, not
just one here and there. Toss them all out with the bath water.
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Push yourself to be challenged. Keep
stretching; don't even think about anything that doesn't.
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You have to want success, breathe it,
eat it, dream it, pray for it, work at it, sacrifice for it, beg for it,
to get it.
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Express your gifts in the highest manner.
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Just because people believe something
of you, doesn't make it so.
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Don't take your lemons and make lemonade,
trade them in for oranges because you can make more money with orange juice
then lemonade.
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Tunnel vision on what you want to succeed
in is a good thing. Learn to say no often to anything else.
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Motivational rage has no fear when
it is powered by optimism.
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Match your strengths and talents with
opportunities in order to build a success formula.
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Define yourself in terms of potential--the
value you bring the world not in context of your job, your role, or your
relationships.
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Know everything about your gifts/talents,
skills, knowledge, loves/hates, beauties, fears, flaws, faults, and foibles.
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Know what people pick up the phone
to call you for.
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What do you naturally seek to do or
possess? What are your obsessions? What do you naturally gravitate towards?
These are your natural gifts.
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Know your weaknesses and stay away
from them.
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Understand, accept, and embrace who
you are--love you and be selfish about it.
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An aura of self-confidence attracts
attention.
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Pay the price, or your competitor’s
will.
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Make your own breaks.
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Develop a high degree of self-awareness.
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Package your talents and money will
follow.
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Become charismatic.
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Believe anything is possible.
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Make something special happen everyday!
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Be a success as a human being, unleash
the courage within you.
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Everyday is a memory, draw that memory
moment by moment, and the picture will be one of complete success in everything
you do.
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The party is today not someday. Write
the party plan out and whom you want to invite. Don't let anyone crash
your party.
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Shine, it’s perfectly okay to do so.
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Success hours are when your dreams
come true.
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Become a good story pitcher.
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Work hard, be prepared, and be available.
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Are you willing to pay the price for
success?
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There is going to be a time when a
big audition will need to be performed, are you ready?
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You
possess unlimited power, unleash it. Be
the last one standing.
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Never under estimate your competition
or that you don't have any.
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Luck has some control buttons, know
what they are and learn to control them.
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Your differences are your success.
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Don't fall into the pitfalls of doing
things others want you to do.
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Learn to be who you are. It’s different
than who you've learned to be in order to survive or please others.
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Eliminate a barrier mindset: "If only
I could master this, I'll have more to offer."
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Write your obituary. Include at least
five special qualities and five accomplishments (date not required).
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Become a tiger in your own tank--go
get them the’r tiger.
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