by © Arthur, The Motivation Home

How everyone wish they have more self confidence in themselves.  With a little more self confidence, you can become a better person and see the world in a new perspective.  For those who  are born with it, self confidence becomes a natural process.  Ideally, it would be to your advantage if your parents have developed your self confidence while you were young.  If not, you still can developed it yourself as an adult.  However, if you are currently a parent, it would be wise to help your kids develop their self confidence early as it will aid in their life achievement. 

As you grow and progress in your life, your self confidence will either deteriorate or improve depending on the life events that is happening around you.  Your self confidence is important to you because a lack of it can hold back the progress of your life.  A person who is confidence truly love and believe in themselves.   They have the courage to do what their heart and desire.  The opinions and discouraging words from others have very little impact on them once they decide to purse their dreams and goals. 

Many people with low self confidence often under achieved as they don't believe in their own potential.  The lack of self confidence can lead to a self perpetuating problem as people with low self confidence set less goals and are more likely to under performance.  In the work place, they are unlikely to work to their full capacity as they lack the confidence to perform well.  The less than stellar results will reinforce that you are mediocre and lousy worker.  As a result, your self confidence suffers and in some cases lead to other self destructive behaviors such as eating disorders, shopping disorders or turning to drugs in some extreme cases. 

People lacking in self confidence are also unlikely to enjoy fulfilling relationships with their partners, family members or friends.  They don't fill comfortable making new friends as they feel that others are always better than them.  They tends to under estimate their self worth. 

Developing your self confidence early is the best defense again those undesirable behavior.  You should not wait to get started building your self confidence and esteem.  Do it today, right now and don't delay till tomorrow.  Determine and list down your strong point.  Focus and develop these strong areas first as it will let you fully believe in yourself and your skills. The more you see your accomplishment, the more you can see the aspect in your life that you are good in. 

Building your self confidence is a progressive effort and you need to develop it gradually by testing and challenging yourself daily or regularly.   As your self confidence improve, the more challenges you will conquer and the better you will feel about yourself.

Finally, you will developed into a person who have the self confidence to do whatever thing that you desire in life.

Copyright © Arthur
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